There is always something so mesmerising when you witness a flock of geese flying in formation as they migrate to warmer climates. At this time of year when I’m walking the dogs around the local lake, I try and capture these beautiful birds soaring above my head.
The graceful synergy of their flight serves as a powerful metaphor for the potential of collective effort and support amongst humans.
If only we were able to adopt a similar formation in our lives, figuratively speaking, we would undoubtedly find strength, resilience and progress in unity.
Last week I had the privilege of working with some remarkable women. They were all in their own way, hugely courageous and brave in sharing their stories and struggles. Just like geese who communicate vocally and visually, together as a group of midlife women, we were able to navigate each others challenges with greater ease.
Recently, I’ve learnt to try and embrace the support I’m offered. Which does take guts. To be vulnerable at 49 takes guts. All too often the mantra of my generation was to be strong and independent and to get on with life. But I don’t want that. I’m so over trying to be strong and successful and constantly striving as a company of one. I want a sisterhood who I can trust and lean on when times get tough. So here’s to depending on others, working together and strengthening bonds so life doesn’t feel so daunting and difficult during the midlife years.
The flying formation of geese reminded me of the power of togetherness and the incredible things we can achieve when we collaborate and support one another. Be more like geese I say, because together there will undoubtedly be a greater sense of unity and purpose in helping us all reach new horizons.
Until the next time
Take care & stay safe xx
Just WOW! This really resonated with me Tanya 🙌🏻 You’ve so eloquently described feelings I’ve been toying with for months, and there it is, literally spelled out to me in your post - we really should lean in to that collective support and unity 💞
This is beautiful 🥰 I agree totally. I never understood ‘networking’ when I was working because it was sold as such a selfish pursuit, to further your career, climb the greasy pole etc. But in midlife I have found connection and mutual with so many wonderful women and that makes so much sense to me ❤️