A Mother's Legacy
Reflecting on love, loss and lessons learned
“To the world, you may be one person, but to your child, you are the world”
For me, today stands as a time for both celebration and reflection - a day to honour the mothers who have shaped our lives, as well as a poignant reminder of those we have lost.
For some, Mother’s Day is a joyous occasion filled with cherished memories and expressions of love. For others, it’s a bittersweet day tinged with longing and grief.
In my eyes, Mother’s Day extends far beyond a single day on the calendar - it’s a daily acknowledgement of the profound influence that mothers have on our lives. It’s a recognition of the countless sacrifices, unconditional love and unwavering support that define the essence of being a mum.
As someone who has been fortunate to experience the joys of motherhood, I am reminded each day of the unbelievable impact my own mother had on shaping the person I am today. Her love, guidance and wisdom continue to guide me, even when we live miles apart. As she keeps reminding me, I’m her “shining star” and there is nothing more beautiful than hearing those words whispered over the ocean that separates us.
Yet I also acknowledge that Mother’s Day can be a challenging time for those mourning the loss of a mother or grappling with the complexities of strained relationships. It’s important to hold space for those who may find this day difficult, offering empathy, support and understanding.
For me as a mother, I pine for my eldest son who at this very moment is living his best life in the mountains of Austria. I’m proud of the gentleman he has become and I’ll raise a glass to me later, for being his guide, his confident, his carer, his rock, his someone to love and depend on, until the day I die. I’ll be hooking up with my youngest son later this afternoon, looking forward to his wit and cheekiness, but more than anything, I know I’ll melt into his hugs, holding him tight in the moment before he scoots off to hang out with his buddies.
Here’s to the mothers who have touched our lives in countless ways. Holding on dearly to the memories and honouring the legacies they have left behind. I want to extend my love, compassion and gratitude to all the mothers, whether they are with us or watching over us from above.
For me, every day is Mother’s Day - a testament to the enduring power of maternal love and extraordinary bond that connects us all.
I hope you’re taking it easy today, if so, you’re very welcome to dive into Sunday WORD:ship with me - soulful part of Sunday to pause for thought and journal…
1.Reflect on a cherished memory with your mother or mother figure. Describe the moment in detail and explore the emotions it evokes.
2. Write a letter to your mother, whether she is still with you or has passed away. Express your feelings, share updates on your life and convey any messages you wish you could tell her.
3. List five qualities or lessons you’ve learned from your mother that have positively influenced your life. Reflect on how these qualities continue to shape who you are today.
4. Explore the concept of motherhood and what it means to you personally. How has your understanding of motherhood evolved over time, and what insights have you gained from your experiences?
5. Reflect on the legacy you wish to leave as a mother or maternal figure. What values, traditions or lessons do you hope to pass on to future generations, and how can you embody these qualities in your life?
“Motherhood: the exquisite blend of chaos and love that shapes our souls."
Until the next time
Take take and stay safe xx